Saturday, December 31, 2022

Saturday, December 31st….Mom’s viewing and Celebration Lunch

 Rod and Debe arrived without any issues but Meagan was not able to hitch a ride out.  She said tomorrow looks promising. 

Today, we celebrated mom and her life with All of us.  The viewing was awful and I was so disappointed. Her hair was not right, she was missing lipstick and she looked like she had just gone tanning.  Her mouth was not right either.  I cried my eyes out as Denny said a prayer.

On the flip side, everyone was here for lunch; including Lisa, her friend and caregiver.  After reading mom’s obituary; which I thought she had seen, she burst into tears because her name was mentioned in it.  Both Deb and I were so touched.

A Grand celebration and I know that both dad and mom were looking down from Heaven and smiling.  At least they are both together.  I still cannot believe we lost them both in a four and half month time frame.  All of us are broken hearted along with feeling like orphans.






Wednesday, December 28th. Rod and Debe arrived with no problems

Friday, the 30th….The Clock Tower. Burgers were  Great!  Glad we have each other.

 

Happy Birthday Dad……….December 27, 2022.

Devin is taking the picture.  Pasta and carrot cake at  Pastini’s  in Bend.  Devin brought the carrot cake!

 

Monday, December 19, 2022

Something has changed........................

Deb said something was off and something has changed after Thanksgiving.  If anyone would see it, she and John would.  Hospice came in and accessed that she was in a decline mode.  How could this be happening?     

We are heartbroken......

Janet E. Emerson

May 30, 1936 – December 15, 2022 

 

Janet Emerson, 86 was born to Raymond and Dorothy (Crocket) Stacy in Klickitat, Washington, on May 30th, 1936.  The family moved to Portland and later settled in Bend.

Janet graduated from Bend Senior High School in 1954 where she was an active student with many friends.  She was a member of the High School Pep Club all four years.  She was well liked and crowned Prom Queen her senior year.  She was also a Princess in the Bend Water Pageant where she and the court floated down Mirror Pond on a swan float.

Janet married her high school sweetheart, Ralph Emerson on November 23, 1955.  They moved to Philomath, Oregon where they made their first home and had three children, Tamela, Deborah, and Rodney.  This year would have been their 67th wedding anniversary. 

We were fortunate to have had a mom who was at home for most of our upbringing.  In fact, our family was sometimes compared to the "Leave it to Beaver" show.   Janet took pride in her home, both inside and out, and loved working in her yard.  She was an avid seamstress who made numerous outfits for her family and beautiful western shirts for her husband.

After her children were a little older, she worked for Volume Shoe Source in Corvallis.  She later volunteered as a Candy Striper at Good Samaritan Hospital and served as Auxiliary President of the Benton County Sheriff's Posse where she spearheaded many new, fun ideas.  Janet also served as the Auxiliary reporter who wrote for "Beaver Banter from Benton County".   She was creative.

After the family moved back to Bend in 1975, she substituted within the Bend School District and was hired full time a year later as a Teacher's Aide at Young, Kenwood, and Kingston Elementary Schools.  Her years working at the school district were all chronicled in photo albums we still have to this day.  Then, after nearly 20 years, both she and Ralph retired and enjoyed a quiet life at their beautiful ranch in Bend.

As a Grandmother, Janet was the driving force behind our annual trips to Seaside which we enjoyed as a family for many years.   The grandchildren guessed at how much was in the "money jar", received prizes for "first and last to turn in their answers", and participated in annual spelling bees and trivia contests.  We all looked forward to her homemade ice 

cream and M&Ms.  In addition, she created our treasured family photos calendar which she distributed each Christmas along with new mittens.

Janet is survived by her three children, Tammy Wibel (Dennis), Debbie Salladay (John), and Rod Emerson (Debe), six grandchildren, Devin and Meagan Wibel, Brittany Brunke (Will), Mackenzie Wood (Diane), Nicole Stodghill (Dom), and Tyler Emerson.  In addition, she leaves six great grandchildren, Preston and Rylynn, Greyson and Kyah, and Daxtyn and Asher.   She was preceded in death by her husband, Ralph earlier this year, both parents, and her sister, Shirley. 

Janet was a loving wife, mom, Grammy, sister, aunt, mother-in-law, and friend.  She loved her family very much and we all loved her.   As a family, we would like to thank her caregiver, Lisa who was a wonderful friend to Janet this past year and to all of us. 

No public service will be held.  A public viewing is scheduled for Saturday, December 31st from 10:00 am – 2:00 pm.  Deschutes Memorial Chapel & Gardens are in charge of arrangements.  https://www.bendfuneralhomes.com/